Wondering what ? You should have guessed by now - Its LOVE !
And here i am only talking about a girl & a guy LOVE !
What i always wondered and still wonder is about the knots that actually bind two people together !
Is it just about understanding each other's likes, dislikes, mood swings , friends , family bla bla
and some even say its about compromising with each each others negatives & positives ..that is it huh !
I even had people say you got to be compatible physically & mentally ??
Is that so simple to have two people live happily ever after ??
What i believed and still do believe is , its love when
I do not speak, yet he responds,
I do not ask, yet he gives,
I do not complain yet he stops doing what annoys me
I do not cry yet he lends a hug
I do not fall yet he holds my hand
I do not want him say I love you every time he bids a bye or drops the call rather i would want him show how much he misses me when he is away !
I do not want him to always come along with me everywhere but i would want him to make me feel belonged and not lonely !
The terrible or the worst of worst incident for him should be when i cry and he should be able to take any hardship on earth but not my tears ! Which also means he would never want to see me cry !
For me i would feel every other man worthless to even have a second look at and he should feel like there is no other woman as beautiful and interesting as me ever before and after (even if i am not )
And if i am angry all that i would want him do is to listen all the shit i talk and not shut the door or slam the phone over !
He should love me being myself and make other woman envy by giving a damn to them.
It should be the same man i know with me and his friends ! Not a changed person !
And i always believe there is difference between being in love and being madly in love ! Being madly loved is a bliss !
And always always Actions speak louder than words, so show love do not speak love !
Now !!! Doesn't life seem to complicated and doesn't loving and being loved seem too difficult ??
Sigh !!!
Santa now you know what i want for this Christmas :) ;)
Merry Christmas :)
And here i am only talking about a girl & a guy LOVE !
What i always wondered and still wonder is about the knots that actually bind two people together !
Is it just about understanding each other's likes, dislikes, mood swings , friends , family bla bla
and some even say its about compromising with each each others negatives & positives ..that is it huh !
I even had people say you got to be compatible physically & mentally ??
Is that so simple to have two people live happily ever after ??
What i believed and still do believe is , its love when
I do not speak, yet he responds,
I do not ask, yet he gives,
I do not complain yet he stops doing what annoys me
I do not cry yet he lends a hug
I do not fall yet he holds my hand
I do not want him say I love you every time he bids a bye or drops the call rather i would want him show how much he misses me when he is away !
I do not want him to always come along with me everywhere but i would want him to make me feel belonged and not lonely !
The terrible or the worst of worst incident for him should be when i cry and he should be able to take any hardship on earth but not my tears ! Which also means he would never want to see me cry !
For me i would feel every other man worthless to even have a second look at and he should feel like there is no other woman as beautiful and interesting as me ever before and after (even if i am not )
And if i am angry all that i would want him do is to listen all the shit i talk and not shut the door or slam the phone over !
He should love me being myself and make other woman envy by giving a damn to them.
It should be the same man i know with me and his friends ! Not a changed person !
And i always believe there is difference between being in love and being madly in love ! Being madly loved is a bliss !
And always always Actions speak louder than words, so show love do not speak love !
Now !!! Doesn't life seem to complicated and doesn't loving and being loved seem too difficult ??
Sigh !!!
Santa now you know what i want for this Christmas :) ;)
Merry Christmas :)
Here is loads of love and big hug from ur dearest Ka.. Love u loads n missing u soo much.. Santa will definetly gift u .. stay blessed and smile always dear :)
ReplyDeleteStaying together is big ask for a person a-like too..
ReplyDeleteand same considering from opposite its too big...
But in a relation both need to come at one conclusion making each other happy no matter what they sacrifice in their life...